Some extracts from Hans' email to the family: |
[Up to the top of the page]4 January 199-EIGHT
Somewhat deflated after a hyperactive month, I try to resume "normal" life and correspondence.
FAMILY It was a great joy to us that we could have all four "children" together again, if only for a short time, at the fiftieth anniversary of our weddingday. But we missed three of our grandchildren: Laura, still on her exciting exchange scholarship in Norfolk, Virginia, and Zak and Amiel with their mother Lybi in Bronxville. We thought of them on the day. Walter was recovering well from his hip-replacement and could be with us on 20 12. Since then he had the misfortune, due to an unfortunate movement, to have his new hip "pop out", which could be corrected fairly easily, but has set him back. Hazel and Jim came to our festivities too. Since old Robin, 85, living alone in Beaufort West, had had a fall, they had taken him to their farm and had sold his town house. So they brought him to Cape Town and we had him to tea here one afternoon. He is very weak on his legs, but otherwise still ok.
TRAVEL Unexpectedly I travelled to Johannesburg twice in November and nearly a third time in December. The planned Open Society Foundation visit to the run-down Eastern Cape school education system went ahead. I spent a night in Bisho with dinner presentations, but instead of visits the next day to the schools and institutions with the others I flew on to Johannesburg. I appeared there as a witness before Bishop Tutu’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission. As a Past President of Assocom way-back in 1960/1, I told them what we had done at the time to oppose the worst apartheid legislation. It was a fascinating experience. At the best of times it is almost impossible to find "the truth"! Two weeks later I was in Jobg again for the 4th Open Society lecture. This time it was delivered by a South African black man: Dickgang Moseneke, whom I have known for the last ten years, former PAC member, now chairman of TELKOM. He is one of the new generation who knows what Open Society means. Fortunately, Mish and Colleen could also attend.
[Up to the top of the page]5 April 1998 Today started off miserably with the second weak cold front to hit us in 48 hours with a little rain. But then came an unexpected invitation to an excellent lunch at Eva Engel’s. An unexpected walk, ASKED FOR BY JESSIE (with me) in our neighbourhood in the Marina (relatively short, but the LONGEST yet) was the next event. This was crowned, you guessed it, by an UNEXPECTED visit by Paul, Linds and Laura for a late cup of coffee in late SUNSHINE. So, after all, it became a good day by our modest standards. I wished all of you were all a little closer to us and we would have more direct human contact with you in these somewhat lonely and frustrating days. After the visits and events of our Golden Wedding, I wrote my last Jupacamily letter on 4 January. In it I speculated whether I would continue with my monthly record. Little did I know then of the traumatic events that would follow soon, leading to Jessie’s operation and the trying times since then. Now, three months later, we may perhaps again approach "getting back to normal". But "normal" will never be the same again. Slowly, we take up where we left off, but there is a great gap. We have not been back to QW since 21 December. The Baxter has not seen us for months. I took Jessie to see her horses once some 10 days ago. Our days are filled with slow routine household living, with visits to doctors, with much rest and at least occasional outings. There is therefore little to report. But for the sake of continuity, here it is. FAMILY It is good to hear how you and those around you are progressing in your various jobs and recreational activities. How the age of communications changes all our lives, and "outsourcing" affects everyone! Jules and Colleen Dawson both consultants who work from home. Mish runs an ever bigger totally computer-related show. Carl co-ordinating computer service sales operations. Only Paul in an almost old-fashioned "job", but involved in travel and cell-phone Email beyond speech. No wonder that Jules’ sailing, Paul and Mish and families’ biking, canoeing,hiking takes on ever increasing significance. The old generation compares notes on all their ailments. Walter’s hip functions, but his walking - with a stick - is slow, so is Gertie’s. We celebrated her 76th birthday with a lunch at "Peddlars". Hazel and Jim were here the other day to stay with Gillian whose husband Graham (until now a tugmaster in CapeTown habour) has taken on a job off Angola. He spends 3 months at a stretch as captain of a deep-sea tug that attends to the needs of the Kabinda oilfields and does rescue work in betrween. That gives him high pay in taxfree US dollars for the family and the 5 weeks he can stay at home before the next 3 months’ stint. HazelJimandold Robin have signed up for a home to be built by November in the nearby Noordhoek Manor Retirement Village. SOUTH AFRICA Quite apart from our (Jessie and my) personal deterioration in the quality of our life, there is undoubtedly a slow deterioration going on throughout the country. Following our "negotiated revolution" there are tremendous changes going on in the country. Most of the worst people and features of the old regime have gone, never to return, thank goodness. But, the new regime has not yet managed to establish reasonable order and progress in the fields of education, health and particularly Law and Order. The combination of the criminal justice system and the police, is now sadly inefficient. Crime is rampant and everyone feels insecure. Having shed its white racial domination motivation and with it some of its staff, the system has at the same time lost strength and competence. The police is understaffed in numbers and quality when It needs to be stronger to cope with new challenges. Corruption is there also, as it was before. There are many able persons of colour taking up positions. But there are not enough. With looming elections a year hence, debates on important subjects take on racial tones again. Despite all this, the country is at least ticking over and many noteworthy successes go unrecorded. My Open Society activities had to be curtailed in recent months and I feel more out of touch than I would like.
[Up to the top of the page]16 May 1998 As I sat down to write to tell you about our misery I looked back over my last Jupacamily letter on 5 April and realise HOW MUCH we have in fact PROGRESSED in the last six weeks. Jessie has not been to any doctor for some ten days, is not taking any more pills other than blood-pressure and -consistancy ones - and has gained weight and strength. She has sat on LaLune, drives her car, goes shopping and generally is almost "back to normal". We've also been back to QW again for the first time for months (with P&L who took their canoes back): very overgrown, but we picked some late and shrunken apples and found the house not much worse than last time. On the culture side we saw a superb play at the Baxter where we also had dinner. Even long neglected house maintenance has progressed, thanks to a round-the-corner-intheMarina maintenance chap who - expensively - has fixed all the leaking taps, renewed the rotting pieces of railings and uprights on the balcony, etc etc.